
Recommended Estate Wedding Menus
The first time you saw it, you might have thought... this is the one. Maybe it was the light. Maybe the view. Maybe it was the way that photographer caught the perfect angle when you saw it the first time in Vogue. However you get that certain feeling for whatever reason that something felt right in a way that made everything else feel, well, a little less bright.
That's what estate weddings do. They start with a place you can't stop thinking about.
We love these weddings. There's something about gathering the people you love in a place that already feels like it means something—whether it's been in your family for years or you just discovered it and couldn't shake the image. The sky instead of a ceiling. Room to wander. Sunset as part of the evening, not something happening outside a window.
Estate properties weren't designed for wedding receptions, of course. But that's part of what makes them beautiful to work with. We get to design to honor the setting, the couple, their families—menus that exemplify place and theme, food that transforms spaces into intentional sensory experiences and stories, timing built around the light, the air, the service format, the speeches, the dancing, the late-night treats, and all the other elements that dictate how the evening will unfold.
Tell us about the place. We'd love to hear what made it feel like the one.
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There's a reason the most photographed weddings happen at estates. The architecture of a century-old Pasadena property. The way a Malibu bluff drops into the Pacific. A Bel Air garden that's been quietly perfect for decades. The Paramour Estate. Greystone Mansion. The Etienne Estate. The Houdini Estate. Private estates in Beverly Hills that don't have websites. Ranches where the hills roll out in every direction. A Picasso on the wall. A wine cellar with bottles you can't source anywhere else. The historic touches and precious elements not available in typical commercial or hotel settings. These aren't backdrops—they're characters in the story. When the setting is this singular, everything rises to meet it.
Estate weddings unfold differently. Guests wander. They discover the view from the terrace, find the bar tucked into the garden, watch the sunset paint the hills from somewhere they didn't expect. We design around that sense of discovery—menus that extend the story of the grounds and history, stations that draw people through the property, passed bites that arrive at exactly the right moment, cocktails that reflect the time or setting, timing that lets the setting reveal itself the way it should.
Most caterers underdeliver on the promise of an estate due to the added complexity. Estate properties demand infrastructure that doesn't exist—commercial kitchens, reliable power, service paths across uneven terrain. We've built systems for exactly this: generator and battery setups for hillside properties with fire restrictions, prep logistics for sites where the kitchen is a ten-minute walk from the reception, menus designed to travel and hold and look as stunning at service as they did leaving the line. Every estate requires choices. We'll ask about your priorities and tailor the experience so those design tradeoffs feel intentional and seamless, not overlooked. Your guests will never know. That's the point.
When the estate belongs to someone you love—your grandmother's home, your uncle's place in the hills—the wedding carries weight beyond the aesthetic. These celebrations honor something. We understand how to work within that context: protecting the property, respecting the history, executing flawlessly so the people who opened their home can simply enjoy the evening. We restored our own Elmer Grey landmark—440 Elm—so we know what it means to care for architecture that matters.
Some estates operate as event venues. They've hosted weddings before, they have infrastructure in place, they know what works on their property. These venues might have kitchen access, established power, a coordinator who's seen it all.
When you're working with an estate venue, we're optimizing within their systems rather than building from scratch. If you're still deciding between properties, we can walk them with you—help you understand what the kitchen situation actually means for your menu, where the restrictions might limit your vision, what questions to ask before you sign. We have numerous venue estates where we've catered - please ask for recommendations.
Then there's the property that means something—the place where holidays happened, where someone in your family has been hosting for longer than you've been alive. These weddings carry weight beyond the aesthetic.
Family properties have never hosted an event at this scale. There's no venue coordinator. No established systems. We figure out what's actually possible, design around the real constraints, and help you navigate the logistics in ways that protect both the property and the relationships. Your grandmother shouldn't be worrying about where we're setting up. Neither should you.
Estate weddings call for menus that feel as intentional as the property itself. We design across a wide range of California and cultural cuisines—Mediterranean for a sun-drenched courtyard, Mexican family recipes for a multi-generational ranch celebration, Asian fusion for a couple who met in Tokyo, classic American elegance for a Pasadena landmark. Service formats flex to the space and the evening: stationed grazing for cocktail hour that encourages wandering, family style for long tables under the oak trees, plated courses for a formal dinner in the garden, chef stations that become part of the entertainment. The food tells your story in ways that honor both the setting and the people gathering in it.
At the Houdini Estate, the walk from kitchen to lawn reception is long enough that you notice it. That distance shaped every menu decision—what holds its beauty across that journey, what stays perfect in afternoon warmth, what can be finished far from where it started.
We design for the property's reality. Composed bites on bases that don't shift. Proteins finished to hold at temperature. Presentations that look as intentional after a three-minute walk as they did leaving the kitchen.
We've seen everything. Gorgeous outdoor setups with commercial equipment. Home kitchens that work beautifully. Home kitchens too far from the event to be practical. Properties with power but nothing else. Hillside estates where open flame isn't permitted—we bring battery and generator systems specifically for those. The structure of a helipad in otherwise difficult terrain. The power and cooking support of the spare garage.
The menu follows the infrastructure. Limited kitchen access means we lean into cold-composed elegance, items finished before we arrive, stations that don't need live fire. Full kitchen access opens different possibilities. Either way, we're designing to what's actually there.
Golden hour in Los Angeles is worth building an evening around. Tell us when the light is best on your property, when the temperature shifts, when the view is most dramatic. We'll pace the food to match—lighter while it's warm, something more substantial as evening settles, late-night bites when everyone's finally on the dance floor.

Pasta Station

Tray Passed Steak Tartare Cone

Backyard Wedding Set-Up - Ceremony and Dining Area

Malibu Hills Backyard Aisle

Venison Tenderloin - Adding Sauce

Tray Passed Edamame Hummus

Malibu Hills Backyard Ceremony Setup

Intimate family-style wedding reception - One long table!

Fall Wedding Cake Top Tier

Backyard Wedding Reception with Plated Meal in Malibu

Dark Chocolate Truffles

Intimate home reception wedding cake

First Dance

Gorgeous summery locally-sourced arrangements for a family-style reception dinner

Mini Cashew-Crusted Key Lime Pies

Chalkboard Menu

Wedding Cake Side


Guest Book for Wedding

Venison Tenderloin Plateup

Dessert Station Night

Intimate family-style wedding reception dinner

Closeup of Cake

Mini Key Lime Pies on White Tray

Potato Gratin next to Venison

A rustic bar with bartender

Venison Tenderloin

Lasagna in Mini Cast Iron

Fall Dessert Station

Pecan Tartlets

Outdoor Reception


Blackened Sea Scallop on Spoons


Chef at the pizza bar – action station

Table Set for Plated Dinner


Antipasto display at the Paramour Estate


Malibu Home Backyard Wedding Reception with Ocean View

Malibu Home Backyard Wedding at the Altar


View of the Malibu Hills from Backyard



Bite FOH Team

Server Passing in an Outdoor Event





Floral Cake


First Bite of Cake!

Tables Set up in the Garden


Murica Grilled Cheese Sandwich

seared thinly-sliced cassis and red wine marinated flank steak with housemade chimichurri with sriracha aioli

Minimoney at a Houdini Estate micro-wedding


Staff Setting Tables

Hazelnut Tuile Basket


N&J Just Got Hitched!


Groom Carries New Bride






Love You More Signature Cocktail





Beautiful Outdoor Dining Setup
Coastal estates come with the most cinematic settings—and the least predictable conditions. Marine layer appears without warning. Afternoon winds rearrange everything. The temperature swings twenty degrees between full sun and oceanside shade.
We plan for it. Food that won't be compromised by a gust. Timing that works with the breeze rather than fighting it. Menus designed to shine whether the fog burns off or decides to stay.
Properties in the hills offer privacy, views, and that feeling of being just above everything. They also come with access challenges, terrain that affects where we can set up, and—in many areas—wildfire restrictions that don't allow open flame.
We've invested in battery and generator systems specifically for these properties. When you can't cook over fire, you need a caterer who's already solved that.
Trade the ocean breeze for summer heat. The menu changes—cold-composed elements that hold their appeal, hot items served quickly, timing that respects the temperature rather than ignoring it.
Palm Springs weddings start later, end later, and require a different kind of pacing. We know how to design for triple-digit afternoons and desert evenings that finally feel like relief.
Estate weddings ask more of a caterer than ballroom weddings do. There's no venue coordinator handling logistics. No commercial kitchen waiting. Sometimes no infrastructure at all.
We've built our approach around exactly these situations—designing menus for real properties rather than idealized ones, solving problems that require actual thought, creating food beautiful enough to earn its place in a setting this dramatic.
You found a place that took your breath away. It's a one of a kind. As is your pairing. In Bite you have a partner that honors the unique elements and stories of these one-of-a-kind combinations and uses hospitality to help tell those stories and create the memorable moments that bind families together.
Every estate is different. Before we can tell you what's possible, we need to walk it with you—understand the spaces, experience the beauty of it through your eyes. And of course, document the logistical elements like the kitchen and plating situation, the distances between spaces and any thermal constraints, a map of breakers and plugs and the power panel(s), a sense of water and the approach to trash.
Whether it's a family property you've known your whole life or an estate venue you're still considering, that site visit is where the real planning starts. Tell us about the place. We'd love to understand what made it the one.
Contact us to schedule an estate wedding consultation.